To say that you may be deceived by trusting too much to be true is correct. True enough, trusting to a fault can leave you totally fooled with your own two eyes open. The usual pretentions that people commits portraying to be someone else when they are not can lead to false pretenses like taking half-truths to be full lies. Trusting is human’s positive instinct but being skeptic is a way of survival.
Getting inside the scenario of She meeting He in a blind date with love-at-first-sight spell at work can be a disaster at the end. Why? Eventually, the He that She had fallen in-love with turns out to be a jerk who have counts of offenses filed against him. Sad story, right? So if you are that type of She, getting quite fiddly and giddy to trust He completely is just the right, correct, proper and smart thing to do. Of course, this could happen in vice-versa. Are you guys learning? Maybe the dream girl you met a while ago could be a theft and murderess, so better get a hold of yourself from proposing marriage instantly. So what to do?
Be pro-active! This type of approach takes anticipating as a career. Kidding aside, this means that you are prepared by acting in advance for things that are expected or anticipated. So the next time you go on a date, try to expect for the worse to happen. Or that you will meet the most stupid creature in planet earth. You can put being pro-active at work by conducting background search prior to meeting them. That way, you can still have time to change your answer in meeting through or not.
Maybe both being skeptic and trusting has their own advantages and disadvantages, but being positive that there are still lot out there to be trustworthy can cost you too much. It can put your time, money, effort, trust and even emotion straight down the waste sewerage.
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